ST. LOUIS, MO. (THECOUNT) — Michael McDonald may have to change the opening lyrics to one of his most famous songs “Takin’ It to the Streets,” after a stunning real-life family discovery — because in this case, the message might be: “You don’t know me, but I’m your father.”
Michael Goessling, a St. Louis man who was adopted as an infant nearly six decades ago, has discovered that his biological father is the five-time Grammy Award winning singer-songwriter and Doobie Brothers member.
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Goessling, 59, was adopted as an infant and raised in St. Louis by Paul and Kay Goessling. He said he always knew he was adopted and described his childhood as a happy one, saying he could not have picked two finer people to raise him.
His biological parents were both just 14 years old when Goessling was conceived. Although he grew up knowing he was adopted, he continued to wonder about his biological family.
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The mystery began unraveling after a half-brother Goessling did not know existed took a 23andMe DNA test. Within about 36 hours, the results identified Goessling as a half-brother living in St. Louis, according to First Alert 4.
The unexpected DNA match began a chain of events that eventually connected Goessling with both of his biological parents. On his 58th birthday, he met his biological mother in person.
Goessling later spoke with his biological father by phone. During the conversation, he asked what his father did for a living. The man said he was a musician preparing to tour through St. Louis that summer.
Goessling began putting the clues together.
“Are you Michael McDonald?” he asked.
“Yeah, I’m afraid so,” McDonald replied.
The answer was indeed yes.
McDonald is the distinctive-voiced singer best known for his work with The Doobie Brothers and his successful solo career. His recordings include “What a Fool Believes” and “I Keep Forgettin’.”
The discovery carried an unusual coincidence: father and son are both named Michael. According to First Alert 4, the shared first name was purely coincidental.
McDonald and Goessling’s biological mother have remained close friends over the years. McDonald said the two had often talked about the child they had placed for adoption and wondered how life had treated him.
“I always carried that guilt with me,” McDonald said. Learning that Goessling had grown up well cared for and had a good life brought him relief. McDonald credited Goessling’s adoptive parents, calling them the “real rock stars” of the story.
Goessling and McDonald eventually met face-to-face.
Goessling said that when McDonald first saw him, the singer opened his arms, gave him a big bear hug and told him he loved him. Goessling told his biological father he loved him as well.
The reunion also gave McDonald another unexpected family connection: He learned that Goessling has children, making the singer a grandfather.
McDonald said he was still processing the discovery and expressed pride in Goessling and his family.
For Goessling, the revelation came nearly 60 years after his adoption and answered a question he had carried throughout his life. The man he discovered was not simply a musician, but one of the most recognizable voices in American popular music.
For McDonald, the reunion finally answered a question that had followed him since he was a teenager: what happened to the son he and his biological mother had placed for adoption when they were both 14?
The extraordinary connection was made possible by modern consumer DNA testing, but the reunion itself was personal. Two people who had spent nearly six decades living separate lives were finally able to meet as father and son.
St. Louis is located along the Mississippi River on Missouri’s eastern border and serves as the center of the St. Louis metropolitan area, which extends into neighboring Illinois. Both Goessling’s childhood and McDonald’s early life are tied to the St. Louis region.
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